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Monday, September 26, 2022
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Te recordaré por siempre, mi gran oso blanco…
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Joan and Roger lit a candle
Sunday, January 3, 2021
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Marshall Robert posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 7, 2020
My condolences to the Litus Family
I am Marshall Robert, one of Jake's former employers and remember not that long ago giving him a glowing letter of recommendation to work at the NJDEP. Glad he got the job but it is painful to hear of his passing.
I fondly remember our discussions about his work in the National Park Service and him mapping resources in caves, about Bit Coins and Bears Ears, Data Warehouses and GIS software, cars that would not start and how much his family meant to him.
He would call now and again to ask if he could swing by the office to pick up his paycheck early so he could go on another camping excursion with his friends and family.
He always did what I asked of him and then some. This world is a bit less vibrant today. I will miss him.
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Doug Rynkewicz lit a candle
Saturday, January 4, 2020
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Today I learned that an old high school classmate of mine, Jake Litus, passed away on Monday. I've been struggling all day with how best to honor him. We weren't particularly close, we're not even friends on social media, and I regret both of these facts. But we were friendly, and I still feel impacted by his passing. I debated whether to go to the viewing, to send something, to post something. Finally, as I was journaling before bed and reflecting on all these thoughts, I settled on simply sharing the story of how he changed my life.
At my high school all seniors have the option of going on this retreat each month. There was a lot of secrecy involved so as not to spoil it for those who had not attended yet, but I think by now I no longer have any friends on here I could spoil it for. On one night of this retreat, each student receives unexpected letters from family, friends, and classmates who had already attended the retreat. These letters are meant to show the students how much they have impacted the lives of others and how much they are loved. Of course, the letters from your parents are always dependable for a good cry, but it was the letter I got from Jake that really encapsulated the entire experience of Kairos for me.
My only real interaction with Jake had been sitting next to him in AP Psych, a fact which he mentioned in the letter and thanked me for helping him get through that class (sometimes unbeknownst to me, which he apologized for). We would talk a bit before and after class but that was about it. He was the last person I expected a letter from. But in the letter he laid out how highly he thought of me. How he thought I was smart and caring and very down to earth. He then recounted how one day he had taken a physics test just prior to psych and was sure he had failed it. He was super bummed out about it when apparently I came in and simply said, "it's a beautiful day today, isn't it?" Jake then claimed how this had completely changed his day and how he realized the importance of being grateful for little things like this we often take for granted even in the face of something upsetting.
To this day, that letter is still the one I most vividly remember and consider to be the most meaningful I received. It was certainly one of the longest. To hear he passed was a total shock. Jake taught me the lesson that you never know how you impact other people in your life, even in chance encounters. It was a lesson I then tried to take into every day of my life, and even into my work as a therapist. Appreciating everything around me and always being kind.
I wish we had been able to become closer after that retreat like he had hoped in that letter. It's something I'll always regret. But I have faith in God's plan and in the meaning of the encounters we did have. Thank you Jake for the impact you had in my life, and the impact you've had in every life I've touched since. It was a blessing to know you. Rest easy brother, and live the Fourth.
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Iris lit a candle
Saturday, January 4, 2020
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Iris, Robert and Tess
Extending our deepest sympathy to you and your family during this time of sorrow. No amount of words can express the pain we know you and your family are going through. The love and joy Jake brought to everyone who was lucky enough to have known him will never be forgotten. Jake was a true inspiratoion to everyone around him. I still and will always remember him as a nice and cute little boy playing in Henryville.
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RUSSELL M SWANICKE planted a tree in memory of Jake Litus
Saturday, January 4, 2020
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The Swanicke family grieves with you with loss of your son Jake. I can think of no better tribute to Jake than planting this tree. Rest in peace Jake. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Cristina,Ricky,Cailee lit a candle
Friday, January 3, 2020
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Sending love and prayers to you all.
Love,
Cristina, Ricky, Cailee ❤️
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Tom & Kimberly Lorandeau lit a candle
Friday, January 3, 2020
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Julie Bealuk posted a condolence
Friday, January 3, 2020
I always loved it when there was a knock on the door and Jake was on the other side. He always took the time to talk, and of course he immediately charmed all of the dogs we’ve had through the years. His mischief and sweet smile will be missed immeasurably. Words can’t express how saddened and sorry we are for your immense loss.
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Your friends at ReCAP (Princeton University) purchased flowers
Friday, January 3, 2020
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Justin, Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Diane lit a candle
Friday, January 3, 2020
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Lisa Callahan (DEP) lit a candle
Friday, January 3, 2020
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Tony Lichvarik purchased flowers
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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From Team NASCAR - Tony & Diana Lichvarik, Tony Salvati, Bob Lestingi, Carl & Diane Pompeo, Jim &a Barbara Munro
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Greg Creamer posted a condolence
Thursday, January 2, 2020
Jodi, I can only imagine what you’re going through, but my heart aches for you and your family. Hang in there, and please know that your Creamer brothers are sending our love and support. -Greg Creamer
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Gian & Marlene DeAngelis purchased flowers
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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Our Christian will never forget the wonderful memories of his friendship with Jake. Please accept our heartfelt sympathies for your loss.
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Tribute Store
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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Our deepest condolences to you and your family during this most difficult time. Jake will be greatly missed.
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Joe Barbato Jr. lit a candle
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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A tree was planted in memory of Jake Litus
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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Our deepest sympathies to the Litus family. Much love from Laura, Eric, Milly and Odin Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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Joe Barbato Jr. planted a tree in memory of Jake Litus
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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With loving memories of "Jake Litus", Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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The Mays Family lit a candle
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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The Mays Family planted a tree in memory of Jake Litus
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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The laughs & smiles that Jake brought to our family will never be forgotten. We are deeply sorry for your loss. Join in honoring their life - plant a memorial tree
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With Love, Alexandra & Dylan McClister purchased flowers
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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Our deepest condolences and prayers to Jakes entire family. He will be deeply missed.
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The family of Jake Ryan Litus uploaded a photo
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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Tribute Store
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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Love Amanda Picone and family (Jocelyn, Brendan and Kyle Picone & Dawn and Gerry McKitty) Jake was loved and will be missed by us all
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Joan & Roger McCloughan lit a candle
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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Friday
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Visitation
4:00 pm - 8:00 pm
Friday, January 3, 2020
Tuttle Funeral Home
272 State Route 10 West
Randolph, New Jersey, United States
973-366-7400
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Funeral Mass
10:00 am - 11:00 am
Saturday, January 4, 2020
Assumption Parish
91 Maple Ave
Morristown, New Jersey, United States
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Interment
11:30 am - 11:45 am
Saturday, January 4, 2020
Gate of Heaven Cemetery
225 Ridgedale Ave
East Hanover, New Jersey, United States
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Jake Litus
1993 - 2019
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